Monday, January 25, 2021

LOVE AND ANGER


By : Gerard Jude C. Bumanglag ,MD 2021

 

 Love and Anger, Hold your horses,

they are no stranger As we go through courses,

 like baby Jesus in the manger Up until Roman's curses,

when His life was in danger

 

 Love and Anger, Do complement each other!

 Never like a brother arguing with his sister,

Never like a ring fighter clashing with another.

Instead, they belong to one single corner,

 Even though one is unique from the other,

Love and Anger, are intertwined forever and ever.


Notes : This is a  poem challenge "Love and Anger" was a 15 minute poem. the poet could have done better but choose not to


Tanjayanon Dr. Gerard Jude C. Bumanglag ,MD.He grow up in Tanjay  City Negros Oriental . He is an Art Collector, Poet, Philatelist,Civic leader,Past President of Tanjay Rotary Club,Chapter Commander of Knights of Rizal  Tanjay Chapter and Heritage & Cultural  Advocate 




12 comments:

  1. Dharyl S. Sta. Maria
    BSN1-C
    Pulantubig Dumaguete City, Negros Oriental

    "LOVE AND ANGER"

    This two words is not the opposite of each rather they are bind together to form a new word "TRUE LOVE".
    They said that because you love someone you tend to get angry with them due the fact you care and want them/he/she to be safe. When you tryn to protect, you get angry to your love one, as result of they would misunderstand it. It's okay to be angry but you need or should keep in mind that you need basis/ground. This  can not be only apply to the couple/s, lovers but can also be on our family member/s, friend/s, co-worker/s, teacher/s, teammate/s and etc. Stay to always remember that in the end of the day you need to calm or forgive and look to that person and think that you sincerely care for their well being and you just love them/he/she.

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  2. Kiana Lourdes Yzabel C Luba
    BSN-1C
    Tanjay City, Negros Oriental


    Love and anger contemplate each other, however they are opposite attracts. The idea that opposite attract in relationships in people or someone is a myth. On the other hand, in reality, people tend or try to be attracted to those who are similar to themselves. But there are other factors you're likely unaware of that play an important part in who you're attracted to. Your anger might cloud your emotion but your love for that person will overpower that anger. Actual attraction is over a quality you would like to develop to yourself.

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  3. Isaiah Kenu Montalban
    BSN 1-C
    Tigbawan, Lazi,Siquijor

    I find this beautiful poem a reminder for us that no matter what we feel towards the person that we love, our love for them is still the greatest higher form of all. When we love, we get disappointed, we get angry. When we love, We get hurt. There is no love without disappointment and there is no love when we are not angry at all. We get hurt, We get angry because we care and we love. Love is one of the purest gifts for us all <3.

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  4. Blezzy P. Soringa
    BSN 1-C
    Canlumacad,Santander,Cebu


    We feel hurt if we love someone and the common response we provide is to comfort and provide them with the necessary care to be okay again. Like many people said that, anger comes from love, because it is impossible to experience anger without love. It will completely change the relation to anger in understanding this to a deep level and developing the ability to witness this within yourself.

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  5. Rodgine A. Melon
    BSN 1-C
    Palinpinon,Valencia, Negros Oriental


    Love is the absence of anger while anger is the absence of love. These two words are opposite to each other but they complement each other. In this life, you will encounter and have felt both. They have to co-exist even they are opposites maintains equilibrium in all aspects. As a person, we grow in various situations. We fell happy along the way if there is love but anger strengthens our personality too. We are tested in life with both concepts. Both should go together along the way because that's the way it is. Whenever anger prevails in a human being, love will heal the person. Whenever love prevails most of the time, challenges won't be there anymore and our chance to grow, to adapt, or to be flexible in situations won't be revealed for we let ourselves be contained in our comfort zone. Two different ideas but both should fo along the way.

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  6. Kristina Cassandra F. Lozada
    BSN-1C
    Sibulan, Negros Oriental

    Love and Anger

    The meaning on the words LOVE and ANGER contrasts one another. Love means having feelings that makes a person care and protect the other while anger expresses vex and irk. But in this poem, the author uses the 2 words as complementary and not contrasting. The words may be different but they both are essential to our lives. In the line “they belong to a single corner,” the author meant that these emotions are felt simultaneously and not separately. A person gets angry at someone because he/she cares about them, though not entirely always the case. The love a person feels makes them want to protect them and make them realize the wrongdoings and improve themselves. In summary, my interpretation on what the author wants to convey in the poem is that emotions are complicated and different but it makes our lives exciting and perfect.

    -XXX-

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  7. Jazmen Claire B. Miral
    BSN - 1C
    Catulayan,San Juan,Siquijor

    Love and Anger

    The poem pertains to the relationship of love and anger and its importance. The existence of love is relevant to anger despite its unalike characteristic and function and also the other way around. Regardless of being the opposite of the another, yet they are both important. Their relationship might be described as contrary to one another but still without the other, they won't be the same.
    Anger have a place in love. You won't get angry if that person is not important to you. You cannot resent when you do not have feelings towards that person.When you cherish someone and that person fails your expectation and hurt your feelings, you start questioning the intent of their action. And when you don't find it out, it develop into anger.That anger you feel is overcomed by love itself. If a person is showing anger instead of hating, it means he/she do loves you.

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  8. Kaye C. Llesol
    BSN-1C
    Magatas, Sibulan, Negros Oriental

    Life isn't fair at days. They're not fine. While and one has the ability to improve, it is only when the person wishes to grow the sustainable transition in a new direction. External forces and demands (even pleas) might help in making a shift, but true understanding, internalization, advertisement patterns will only really come about if a person is willing. Love as a cause for frustration, therefore. There are different ways of seeking love in your life, but with a little effort, you will lose your heart's frustration and fulfill it. In the end, if anything makes you worse for someone or something you love, you should make your decision. Wrath and goodness may be chosen.

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  9. John Mark T. Norico
    BSN 1-C
    Bayawan City

    “Love and Anger” These two words the exact opposite of each other but they need to coexist with one another. Love is a powerful form of expression, but it can be difficult to achieve and maintain. So, it is just as likely love also causes you pain and anger.
    Somehow, the more you love someone, the more you get hurt or hurt that person. The actions and words of your mom, dad, siblings, children, and spouse probably hurt and trigger your anger driving the deepest wedges.

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  10. Blais Marie Claire P. Laurie
    BSN - 1C
    Simacolong, Lazi, Siquijor

    As I was reading and contemplating the poem a multiple times, I can say that love and anger goes well with each other no matter what. Yes, love and anger may have diverse and different meanings. Yes, love and anger is like the context of a dog and a cat fighting. Yes, love and anger may have uniqueness to each other.
    But wait, on the first line, the poem is telling me to stop, be still and to think because love and anger is relating to each other. They are already acquainted to each other while still progressing in a relationship. They do have the same intensity, the level of emotion.

    And let me share this with you, so my late Lolo gave us the best advices ever especially on the context of love and anger. Well, before I didn’t get it because I was too young like on my mind I always got puzzled and like what was he even trying to say to us. But he related the love and anger to a burning fire and a water. That when your love of your life is angry at you to the point that their eyes gleaming with fire, the other must tone down and be like a water. And that’s what keep their relationship strong and going with my late grandma. Love and anger must not clash to each other. They need to be in a correlative to each other no matter how diverse it is.

    And I feel like when someone gets angry for my wrong doings like for example my Mom, it just means that she loves me. She doesn’t want me to be on something that will give my name a bad reputation into it and I’m thankful for that. And despite her emotion goes wild, I still believe and I could really feel that her love for me is beyond incomparable. Therefore, love and anger goes well with each other. And I guess it’s pretty normal.

    Thank you :)

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  11. Josh Remil G. Lariosa
    BSN 1C
    Bagacay, Purok Gemelina Dumaguete City

    Love and Anger

    The one that can’t be without the other, love and anger. These emotions are two sides of the same coin. When a person learns to love, it also knows pain and with that comes anger and frustration. Love manifest through our concerns with the people we are accustomed to. Anger comes from the lose of love and when one loves someone too much, however; our anger shouldn’t be a raging fire that consumes anyone that comes near it but a calm wave that hits you and teaches you how to value someone you love.

    I can personally say that love is deceitful and cruel yet wonderful at the same time. The love that I give towards my family is both my pain and joy, there is no such thing as a love that is perfect aside from God’s love. To love is to sacrifice your sanity, it defies all reasoning and logical thought which makes it deceitful. It can be used to trick other people because not all forms of love are real and this leaves you feeling worthless and empty. Love is also wonderful because we ourselves are the physical manifestation of love, I am not who I am without knowing love.

    Love is forever intertwined with anger; you cannot understand love without anger even God himself was angry at humanity at some point. We were enemies of God before we were his children because he loves us too much and yet we kept on disobeying him. God was angry towards us and yet he still gave his one and only son in order to live a life that we couldn’t and to save us from our sins. Love from anger, just like when we are disappointed and angry at someone but deep down, we know that it’s just a fleeting feeling because we can’t stay angry forever and that love will never disappear.

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  12. John Lloyd R. Macapangal
    BSN 1-C
    Lacsa,Bonawon,Siaton,Negros Oriental

    When i was reading the poem i understand what the righters feelings because if you truly love a person you must be ready to feel anger because i truly believe that the true love comes with anger. Even though that "love and hate" have different meanings and many people have different understanding of it for me it's the same, that this two emotions will co-exists with each other for internaty.

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